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February 24, 2021
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10 Ways To Make Your Spouse Feel Like A Roommate

Do these things if you want to make your partner feel like a roommate.

10 Ways To Make Your Spouse Feel Like A Roommate
December 9, 2020
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8 Tips To Get The Most Out Of Your Telehealth ...

To get the most out of your Telehealth session use a new and restarted computer on WiFi with earphones and water (to drink), tissues, homework, pen + paper adequate lighting.

8 Tips To Get The Most Out Of Your Telehealth Session
September 9, 2020
Grayson Wallen
Decoding Your Anxiety

Anxiety is a response to unknown/unexplored emotions and is not a feeling in itself. Feeling anxiety is your body’s cue to check out the emotions to resolve the anxiety experience.

Decoding Your Anxiety
March 13, 2019
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Before You Start Counseling: 4 Things ...

Before you jump into counseling, here are four considerations:

Before You Start Counseling: 4 Things to Consider
February 20, 2019
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4 Relationship Myths You Shouldn't Believe (+ ...

Leading relationship research debunks myths you probably believe

4 Relationship Myths You Shouldn't Believe (+ Why You Do)
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July 29, 2026

The Hidden Weight of a "Sexless" Marriage, and How Therapy Can Help

Grayson Wallen
July 29, 2026
 The Hidden Weight of a "Sexless" Marriage, and How Therapy Can Help

The quiet distance is rarely about sex itself — it's usually pointing to something else that's asking for attention.

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July 21, 2026

Trust After Betrayal: Infidelity Recovery Counseling That Works

Grayson Wallen
July 21, 2026
Trust After Betrayal: Infidelity Recovery Counseling That Works

Infidelity doesn't have to be the end of your relationship. Learn how Gottman Method couples therapy's 3-phase process — Atone, Attune, Attach — helps couples rebuild trust after betrayal.

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July 14, 2026

IS-TDP for Chronic Pain: The Mind-Body Connection

Grayson Wallen
July 14, 2026
IS-TDP for Chronic Pain: The Mind-Body Connection

Chronic pain often has emotional and physiological layers that traditional medical approaches don’t always address. IS-TDP offers a way of working with the emotional and nervous system patterns tied to physical pain, tension, and fatigue.

Grayson Wallen
June 30, 2026

Is Your Emotional Bank Account Overdrawn? 3 Ways to Turn Toward Your Partner Today

Grayson Wallen
June 30, 2026
Is Your Emotional Bank Account Overdrawn? 3 Ways to Turn Toward Your Partner Today

Couples rarely fight about what they think they're fighting about. Here's what's really going on underneath — and 3 small habits that can help.

Grayson Wallen
June 23, 2026

What Is Premarital Counseling? A Couples’ Guide to Building a Strong Marriage Foundation

Grayson Wallen
June 23, 2026
What Is Premarital Counseling? A Couples’ Guide to Building a Strong Marriage Foundation

Premarital counseling isn't about fixing something broken — it's about building something strong before life tests it. Learn the research-backed benefits of Gottman-based premarital prep.

Grayson Wallen
February 18, 2026

What to Talk About in Couples Therapy (35+ Topics to Strengthen Your Relationship)

Grayson Wallen
February 18, 2026
What to Talk About in Couples Therapy (35+ Topics to Strengthen Your Relationship)

Learn some of what couples typically address in therapy through 35+ Gottman-informed topics that improve communication, conflict patterns, and relational resilience.

Grayson Wallen
February 10, 2026

The Gottman Approach to Affair Recovery

Grayson Wallen
February 10, 2026
The Gottman Approach to Affair Recovery

Affairs rupture trust, safety, and connection. The Gottman Method offers the only research based treatment proven to be effective in affair recovery by replacing the negativity of an affair with conflict management and lasting friendship This post explores the framework and why many couples choose to repair.

Grayson Wallen
February 4, 2026

6 Signs IS-TDP Therapy Might Be Right for You

Grayson Wallen
February 4, 2026
6 Signs IS-TDP Therapy Might Be Right for You

Many people understand their emotional patterns clearly, yet still feel stuck in the same reactions. This post explores six signs that IS-TDP may be a good fit — especially if insight hasn’t yet led to meaningful change.

Grayson Wallen
January 20, 2026

How to Find the Best Marriage Counselor Near You

Grayson Wallen
January 20, 2026
How to Find the Best Marriage Counselor Near You

This guide explains how to choose a marriage counselor in your area – including what qualifications to look for, key questions to ask, and how to find the best fit for your relationship.

Grayson Wallen
January 12, 2026

Understanding the Gottman "Four Horsemen": Communication Patterns That Cause Relationship Distress

Grayson Wallen
January 12, 2026
Understanding the Gottman "Four Horsemen": Communication Patterns That Cause Relationship Distress

Struggling to communicate with your partner? The Gottman Four Horsemen – criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling – can damage relationships. Learn how to recognize these patterns and fix communication using proven Gottman Method tools.

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